What a girl needs most is love. What a guy needs most is respect.
The most important thing for a girl is her heart. For a guy it's his ego.
Give your man his own time and space. Let him have his time
for his friends, sports, family, self, and God. The relationship will grow old
quickly if lagi kayong magkasama. Give him time to miss you and you'll see how
he will love you more. If the guy naman is obsessed and just wants to be with
you all the time, tell him you can't respect a "puppy" for long.
Do things differently anytime. Para kahit matagal na kayo,
there is always something fresh and new. Variety is the spice of life. Exciting
kumbaga?
Discover something you both like to do and enjoy it
TWOgether. Doon naman sa mga bagay na magkaiba ang hilig nyo, compliment each
other by learning about it kahit konti. If you love someone, yung effort nyo to
try will go a looooong way to understanding him later pag may disagreement
kayo.
Pray with holding hands. Sounds corny noh? Maybe, but its
very powerful. Pag may takot sa Diyos ang boyfriend mo, kampante ka na di ka nya
lolokohin, because he knows God sees everything he does in secret. Ikaw na ang
magkusa that before you part after a date, with hold hands and eyes closed,
pray to God to bless you two. Believe me it's effective.
Kailanman, di corny ang magdasal.
Believe in "Magic". Kahit di minsan practical o
walang logical na dahilan, o matrabaho, o sounds crazy sa iba, do sweet little
things for the one you love kahit magmukha ka ng timang. The memories will be
fun to recall later in life. The corniest song o gift o letter ang laging
kabog!
True love brings out the best in each other. Find something
good in your boyfriend and nurture it, encourage it and syempre, ENJOY it.
It's healthy to fight. Doon nyo lang maaayos ang mga
differences nyo at natetest ang tatag ng relationship. Doon mo rin sya
makikilala ng mabuti. It's called test of fire. Di mahalaga how madalas you
fight. What matters is how often you make bati.
Mas nakakatakot yung relasyong sobrang perfect at laging
masaya. One big fight and that's it! And diba mas kilig yung malambing na...
"uy, bati na tayo...".
But don't overdo it. Kakapagod naman din na lagi na lang
manuyo o magsori. Choose the battles na papatulan mo. The little issues,
palampasin na. Don't sweat the small stuff.
Daraan sa iba't-ibang stages ang love especially pag matagal
na kayo. Grow with it. Don't expect him to be like nung una. 'Coz like a
student, di na ituturo sa grade 6 yung lessons na pang-grade
Change WILL happen... you both will change and your love
WILL change too. It's up to you na lang if the change will be for the better or
for the worse. Life is about growth. Grow with it.
When break up comes and it's time to say goodbye, don't
doubt the love just because it didn't last. May mga bagay sa buhay na di man
nagtatagal, it doesn't mean di na ito totoo. Some good things are just never
meant to last forever. Okay lang yon. Bless the parting and move on.
Expect tears, sorrow, sleepless nights and pain. Ika nga
"it's when you hurt the worse that you love the MOST." Kung di ka
willing masaktan, wag ka na lang magmahal.
Life is a balance. And love is both holding on and letting
go. Know when to fight for your man and when to let him go. God will guide you
kung anong dapat gawin sa kung anong sitwasyon. So dapat mataas ang signal ng
langit sa cellfone ng puso mo to know His wisdom.
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